Karen Sharp was a good friend of mine who passed away and this list she sent me gives me a boost. I have been thinking about her lately and I wanted to share a little bit of her. See, she was a good mentor to me, and I am continually working on my 15.
15 books that influenced my life-Karen Sharp
Sunday, August 9, 2009 at 9:20am
Rules: (Really!) Fifteen books you've read that will always stick with you.
1. Louisa May Alcott's books
It was her world more than Father Knows Best that I wanted to inhabit. Massachusetts and Rhode Island family & living some years in New England gave me my best ever memories. There really were attics that took up a whole floor (houses built in 1700s and 1800s) with sea captain's chests of treasures from 18th & 19th century and earlier China. Dress forms from unknown ancestors, trunks and trunks of treasures from baubles, clothing of bygone eras, beads, cast off furniture, bolts of fabric, letters, books (some of the best I've ever read.) My appreciation of history burst into life long bloom with that first attic visit. Yep, I was born in the wrong time. Of course I wouldn't be alive at this age had my life been then....(A friend calls me the Southern Yankee.)
2.Mythology. Great Grandfather in that New England family got me started reading (and reporting on) mythology when I was a very young girl. Read everything in the Providence library had on mythology by time I was in 6th grade. I have no doubt it influenced me in ways I cannot imagine.
3. Nancy Drew series by Carolyn Keene-
To this day I love female mystery series (me too -I'm quoting Faith)
4. Childhood reading biographies of independent and high minded people who made a difference like Clara Barton, Florence Nightingale, Will & Charlie Mayo, St Francis, —continues to this day, although now I read mostly bios and auto bios of writers and artists. Led to going back for another degree in history when I was 50.
5. The Search for Meaning in Life, Victor Frankel- read when I was 22. Have reread several times. His concentration camp experiences—how someone can live through horrors beyond imagination and stay sane and part of the solution.
6. The Paintings of Henry Miller: Paint as you like and die happy, Henry Miller. Title says it all.
7. Learning How to Learn: Psychology & Spirituality in the Sufi Way, Indries Shah. Wonderful teaching stories.
8. The Bible. Wish I had read it cover to cover at a much younger age—it might not have taken me to late middle age to understand a lot more about people. I had the compassion down pat, but cover to cover bible got rid of delusions about always looking for the good in people. Sometimes seeing that above all else is a killer.
9. Brave New World and Animal World...and here we are...
10. Huckleberry Finn, Mark Twain Learning to laugh at self, with others, absurdity of life in so many layered ways
11. 100 Years of Solitude, Gabriel Garcia Marquez
12. Graham Greens' books – made me think a lot more about relationship to God and nature of my own beliefs than the hundreds of books on spirituality I acquired and read over the decades.
13.Lady, Thomas Tryon. A wonderful writer able to tell a story with moral and human messages without being at all pedantic. Makes you think when you close the book for the last time.
14.Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights by Bronte sisters. Wish I had never read them at a far too young age. I think they inspired a very unhealthy attraction (no longer there thank God) to Byronic emotionally (and otherwise) unavailable dark and brooding men.
15.I go back to books by Isabel Allende over and over. And, especially book and articles written about her and her latest memoir The Sum of Our Days. Her life has been no ordinary: out of the box, out of the cultural expectations/breaking the rules whether by choice or DNA or fate or whatever – and, therefore, she comforts and inspires me.
Carmi-White County high school-1965
University of Michigan-1970
SIU Carbondale 1978
Kent State 1983
UCO 2000